ASK MOM

ASK MOM

Award-winning column encouraging parents to tackle the hard stuff.
by Mary Follin and Erika Guerrero

Fredericksburg Parent & Family Magazine

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ASK MOM: TOO MANY CHOICES FOR KIDS?

ASK MOM: TOO MANY CHOICES FOR KIDS?

ASK MOM offers parents and caretakers two perspectives on today’s child-rearing issues--one from a mom with grown children, the other from a mom raising small children. If you're looking for creative solutions, or your mom isn't around to ask, drop in!​THE ISSUE: I’ve...

ASK MOM: GUILTY MOM WONDERS ABOUT KIDS & RESTAURANTS

ASK MOM: GUILTY MOM WONDERS ABOUT KIDS & RESTAURANTS

by Mary Follin and Kristi Crosson ASK MOM offers parents and caretakers two perspectives on today’s child-rearing issues--one from a mom with grown children, the other from a mom raising small children. If you're looking for creative solutions, or your mom isn't...

ASK MOM: AM I RAISING A BULLY?

ASK MOM: AM I RAISING A BULLY?

Am I Raising a Bully?by Mary Follin and Kristi CrossonRead more ASK MOM advice. THE PROBLEM: My oldest son (11 yo) is mean to his younger brother and sister. He calls each of them a derogatory nickname and constantly makes fun of them. He even shoves them a little...

ASK MOM: DAUGHTER ASSUMES THE WORST, TURNING INTO NEGATIVE PERSON

ASK MOM: DAUGHTER ASSUMES THE WORST, TURNING INTO NEGATIVE PERSON

Daughter assumes the worst, turning into negative personby Mary Follin and Erika Guerrero THE PROBLEM: I am worried about my daughter (15 yo), who always expects the worst. She has a long list of things she’s sure isn’t going to happen, like getting invited to a...

ASK MOM: MY DAUGHTER REPULSES OTHER KIDS

ASK MOM: MY DAUGHTER REPULSES OTHER KIDS

My Daughter Repulses Other Kidsby Mary Follin and Kristi CrossonRead more ASK MOM advice. THE PROBLEM: My daughter is desperate for a friend—even ONE friend would do—but every time another child pays attention to her (which is rare), my daughter does something to make...

ASK MOM: AFRAID MY BABY WILL GROW UP LIKE ME

ASK MOM: AFRAID MY BABY WILL GROW UP LIKE ME

Afraid My Baby Will Grow Up Like Meby Mary Follin and Kristi CrossonRead more ASK MOM advice. THE PROBLEM: My childhood was the kind you want to forget. (Abuse, neglect, you name it.) I’ve been able to escape it, and by some miracle, I married a nice guy who treats me...

ASK MOM: MOM OVER-PRAISES DAUGHTER, DAUGHTER CRAVES APPROVAL

ASK MOM: MOM OVER-PRAISES DAUGHTER, DAUGHTER CRAVES APPROVAL

Mom over-praises daughter, daughter craves approvalby Mary Follin and Erika GuerreroRead on Fredericksburg Parent & Family magazine THE PROBLEM: I’ve always been one to praise my daughter. I love her for who she is, and I want her to love herself, too. But I’m...

ASK MOM: SON GETS FRUSTRATED AND CUSSES AT MOM

ASK MOM: SON GETS FRUSTRATED AND CUSSES AT MOM

Son gets frustrated and cusses at momby Mary Follin and Erika Guerrero THE PROBLEM: My son gets frustrated soooo easily. He’s eleven, but he’s always been like this. He gets impatient if he doesn’t know how to do something right away, and throws what I call a...

ASK MOM: DAUGHTER WON’T ACCEPT ‘NO,’ HARASSES MOM

ASK MOM: DAUGHTER WON’T ACCEPT ‘NO,’ HARASSES MOM

Daughter won’t accept ‘no,’ harasses momby Mary Follin and Erika Guerrero​Read on Fredericksburg Parent & Family magazine ​THE PROBLEM: My eight-year-old daughter won’t take ‘no’ for an answer. Every time I don’t give her what she wants, she starts negotiating...

ASK MOM wins parenting media association award!

HOW TO FORM A WRITER’S GROUP AND WRITE A NOVEL

HOW TO FORM A WRITER’S GROUP AND WRITE A NOVEL

So you’re ready to write that novel. It’s been festering in the back of your mind for weeks—or years—and something about this moment is making you say “It’s time.” Short of a professor who threatens you with an ‘F’ if you don’t turn it in, how do you make sure you get...

WRITE A NOVEL: NO MORE EXCUSES!

WRITE A NOVEL: NO MORE EXCUSES!

A lot of people have one inside of them. A novel, I mean. They think about it, they tell people about it—they might even sit down and write a few pages. But why do so few actually finish writing a novel? For starters, it’s a big job. And when you have a lot of other...

CHILDREN’S BOOK AUTHOR: DID J.K. ROWLING JUST GET LUCKY?

CHILDREN’S BOOK AUTHOR: DID J.K. ROWLING JUST GET LUCKY?

Perhaps there was an element of ‘luck’ to the record-breaking popularity of the bespectacled, black-haired boy dreamed up by children’s book author J.K. Rowling. After all, a lot of events had to fall magically in place before one small publisher finally decided to...

FREE EBOOK: “CAN I TEACH MY CHILD TO READ? A PARENT’S GUIDE”

FREE EBOOK: “CAN I TEACH MY CHILD TO READ? A PARENT’S GUIDE”

If you are interested in teaching your child to read, I'm pleased to announce a new resource for you: Can I Teach My Child to Read? A Parent's Guide. This free guide discusses the joys of working with your child at home, why phonics matters and tips on how to make it...

PHONICS BASED READING VS. SIGHT READING: THE BATTLE IS OVER.

PHONICS BASED READING VS. SIGHT READING: THE BATTLE IS OVER.

You may be aware that some educators are at odds over which approach is more effective—phonics based reading or sight-reading (memorizing whole words at a time). Schools seem to focus more on one or the other, and many parents are left to wonder if their child didn’t...

A WRITER’S JOURNEY: IT’S A LONELY ONE

A WRITER’S JOURNEY: IT’S A LONELY ONE

If you are a fiction writer, chances are, you spend a lot of time in solitary confinement. When everybody else is at the mall on a lazy Saturday afternoon, you’re hunched over your computer, typing. When your spouse is running a “Mad Men” marathon on Netflix, you’re...

7 BOOKS FOR KIDS BY FAMOUS PEOPLE

7 BOOKS FOR KIDS BY FAMOUS PEOPLE

Celebrities who make it big in one way (say, making movies) are often gifted writers, artists, vocalists, and instrumentalists. Not fair, I know. But that’s just how it is. So it shouldn’t come as a surprise that famous people have written some terrific books for...

About Mary Follin

Mary is the author of TEACH YOUR CHILD TO READ and ETHYR, winner of the Moonbeam Children's Book Award and the Gertrude Warner Book Award. She is mom to two grown sons and enjoys sharing her more seasoned perspective  with parents of younger children. 

ABOUT ERIKA GUERRERO

Erika Guerrero is a freelance hair and makeup artist, Erika K. Beauty, single-mama to one amazing boy, and author of She’s Not Shaken, a blog offering hope and encouragement to women in all walks of life.

ABOUT SUZANNE JOHNSON

Suzanne Johnson, mother of five children and grandmother of eight, is an illustrator, book cover designer, and author of the Realms of Edenocht series.

ETHYR

M.P. Follin
​Gertrude Warner Book Award
Moonbeam Children's Book Award

An adventure for kids ages 8-12— especially if they like video games!