ASK MOM

ASK MOM

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by Mary Follin and Erika Guerrero

Fredericksburg Parent & Family Magazine

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ASK MOM: SON HAS ANXIETY ABOUT WORLD ENDING

ASK MOM: SON HAS ANXIETY ABOUT WORLD ENDING

Son Has Anxiety About World Ending by Mary Follin and Kristi CrossonRead on Fredericksburg Parent & Family magazine THE PROBLEM: I’m afraid my 13-year old son has gotten into some stuff on the internet that’s causing him a lot of anxiety. He’s convinced the world...

ASK MOM: DAUGHTER IS MEAN TO HER FRIENDS

ASK MOM: DAUGHTER IS MEAN TO HER FRIENDS

Daughter is Mean to Her Friendsby Mary Follin and Kristi Crosson​THE PROBLEM: I’m worried about my daughter and how she treats her friends. (She’s 11.) When they tell her something about themselves, she tries to make it seem less-than-spectacular. Like, when her...

ASK MOM: MY SON IS RUDE TO ME

ASK MOM: MY SON IS RUDE TO ME

ASK MOM: My Son is Rude to Meby Mary Follin and Kristi CrossonRead More ASK MOM advice in Fredericksburg Parent & Family Magazine​ ​THE PROBLEM: I’ve gotten into this weird dynamic with my kid. The bottom line is, he’s rude to me and I can’t do anything about it....

ASK MOM: IMPULSIVE DAUGHTER CAN’T STOP HURTING OTHERS FEELINGS

ASK MOM: IMPULSIVE DAUGHTER CAN’T STOP HURTING OTHERS FEELINGS

Impulsive daughter can’t stop hurting other children’s feelingsby Mary Follin and Erika GuerreroRead on Fredericksburg Parent & Family THE PROBLEM: My seven-year-old daughter has a bad habit of blurting out inappropriate things. She’ll say stuff like: “Johnny...

ASK MOM: AM I RAISING A NARCISSIST?

ASK MOM: AM I RAISING A NARCISSIST?

Am I Raising a Narcissist?by Mary Follin and Kristi CrossonRead more ASK MOM advice. THE PROBLEM: I have recently learned that one of my friends is a narcissist (as diagnosed by a clinician), so I have been doing a lot of reading about the disorder. I am discovering...

ASK MOM: MY SON CAN’T CONTROL HIMSELF

ASK MOM: MY SON CAN’T CONTROL HIMSELF

My Son Can't Control HimselfRead on Fredericksburg Parent & Family magazineby Mary Follin and Kristi Crosson THE PROBLEM: Since my son was little, he’s had a tendency to blurt things out and randomly do odd things. I thought he would outgrow it, but he’s in fourth...

ON KIDS, WRITING AND READING

Children's books do something to you. Do children's book titles hold the same enchantment for you as they do for me? Anne of Green Gables, The Long Winter (Laura Ingalls Wilder), The Five Little Peppers and How They Grew, The Little Princess (or Sara Crewe),...

ON READING, WRITING AND KIDS

7 tips for teaching a fidgety child how to read. Children want to learn how to read, but let’s face it, sometimes it feels like work. In the early lessons, there are some basics that need to be covered before the real fun begins. Learning all the sounds of the...

WRITING A MIDDLE-GRADE OR YA NOVEL—EVERYBODY’S GOT TO HATE IT FIRST.

WRITING A MIDDLE-GRADE OR YA NOVEL—EVERYBODY’S GOT TO HATE IT FIRST.

How do you eat an elephant? One bite at a time. How do you write a novel? Make yourself sit down at your computer. Then, get up, go to the kitchen for a snack, eat it over the sink, sit back down again, look out the window and finally, go to Starbucks. At least,...

ASK MOM: IS MY KID FAKING IT?

ASK MOM: IS MY KID FAKING IT?

Is My Kid Faking It?by Mary Follin and Kristi CrossonRead on Fredericksburg Parent & Family magazine ​ THE PROBLEM: I’m beginning to worry about how often my son misrepresents things (he’s 9). I don’t mean he outright lies, but he’ll have these full-blown excuses...

ASK MOM wins parenting media association award!

ASK MOM: SON HAS HEAD IN THE CLOUDS, STEPS INTO STREET

ASK MOM: SON HAS HEAD IN THE CLOUDS, STEPS INTO STREET

Son has head in the clouds, steps into streetby Mary Follin and Erika GuerreroRead More ASK MOM advice in Fredericksburg Parent & Family Magazine​ ​ ​ ​ THE PROBLEM: My son can’t get his head out of the clouds. (He’s 9.) He has a wonderful imagination and is...

ASK MOM: SON GETS LEFT OUT AT RECESS, IT HURTS

ASK MOM: SON GETS LEFT OUT AT RECESS, IT HURTS

Son gets left out at recess, breaks mom's heart.by Mary Follin and Erika GuerreroRead in Fredericksburg Parent & Family Magazine ​ THE PROBLEM: My fifth-grade son is having a hard time making friends this year. He had two good friends in his class in third grade,...

ASK MOM: OTHER MOMS MAKE ME FEEL BAD ABOUT MYSELF

ASK MOM: OTHER MOMS MAKE ME FEEL BAD ABOUT MYSELF

Other Moms Make Me Feel Bad About Myselfby Mary Follin and Kristi CrossonRead More ASK MOM advice in Fredericksburg Parent & Family Magazine​ THE PROBLEM: Everybody else seems to be better at “momming” than me. They all volunteer at the school, their kids always...

ASK MOM: SON TURNING INTO HYPOCHONDRIAC

ASK MOM: SON TURNING INTO HYPOCHONDRIAC

Son Turning into Hypochondriacby Mary Follin and Kristi CrossonRead on Fredericksburg Parent & Family magazine ​THE PROBLEM: Ever since the pandemic started, my 11-year old son ‘catches’ everything he reads about. He gets stomachaches, headaches, sore throats—any...

ASK MOM: SON HAS ANXIETY ABOUT WORLD ENDING

ASK MOM: SON HAS ANXIETY ABOUT WORLD ENDING

Son Has Anxiety About World Ending by Mary Follin and Kristi CrossonRead on Fredericksburg Parent & Family magazine THE PROBLEM: I’m afraid my 13-year old son has gotten into some stuff on the internet that’s causing him a lot of anxiety. He’s convinced the world...

ASK MOM: DAUGHTER IS MEAN TO HER FRIENDS

ASK MOM: DAUGHTER IS MEAN TO HER FRIENDS

Daughter is Mean to Her Friendsby Mary Follin and Kristi Crosson​THE PROBLEM: I’m worried about my daughter and how she treats her friends. (She’s 11.) When they tell her something about themselves, she tries to make it seem less-than-spectacular. Like, when her...

ASK MOM: MY SON IS RUDE TO ME

ASK MOM: MY SON IS RUDE TO ME

ASK MOM: My Son is Rude to Meby Mary Follin and Kristi CrossonRead More ASK MOM advice in Fredericksburg Parent & Family Magazine​ ​THE PROBLEM: I’ve gotten into this weird dynamic with my kid. The bottom line is, he’s rude to me and I can’t do anything about it....

ASK MOM: IMPULSIVE DAUGHTER CAN’T STOP HURTING OTHERS FEELINGS

ASK MOM: IMPULSIVE DAUGHTER CAN’T STOP HURTING OTHERS FEELINGS

Impulsive daughter can’t stop hurting other children’s feelingsby Mary Follin and Erika GuerreroRead on Fredericksburg Parent & Family THE PROBLEM: My seven-year-old daughter has a bad habit of blurting out inappropriate things. She’ll say stuff like: “Johnny...

About Mary Follin

Mary is the author of TEACH YOUR CHILD TO READ and ETHYR, winner of the Moonbeam Children's Book Award and the Gertrude Warner Book Award. She is mom to two grown sons and enjoys sharing her more seasoned perspective  with parents of younger children. 

ABOUT ERIKA GUERRERO

Erika Guerrero is a freelance hair and makeup artist, Erika K. Beauty, single-mama to one amazing boy, and author of She’s Not Shaken, a blog offering hope and encouragement to women in all walks of life.

ABOUT SUZANNE JOHNSON

Suzanne Johnson, mother of five children and grandmother of eight, is an illustrator, book cover designer, and author of the Realms of Edenocht series.

ETHYR

M.P. Follin
​Gertrude Warner Book Award
Moonbeam Children's Book Award

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