ASK MOM

ASK MOM

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by Mary Follin and Erika Guerrero

Fredericksburg Parent & Family Magazine

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ASK MOM: SON PITS DAD AGAINST MOM, TRIES TO GET FRIENDS TO ‘TAKE SIDES’

ASK MOM: SON PITS DAD AGAINST MOM, TRIES TO GET FRIENDS TO ‘TAKE SIDES’

ASK MOM: Son pits dad against mom, tries to get friends to ‘take sides’by Mary Follin and Erika Guerrero​Read more ASK MOM on Fredericksburg Parent & Family ​ THE PROBLEM: My middle son (he's 9) has a habit of ‘playing both ends against the middle.’ What I mean...

ASK MOM: DAUGHTER DEPENDS TOO MUCH ON MOM, TELLS MOM EVERYTHING

ASK MOM: DAUGHTER DEPENDS TOO MUCH ON MOM, TELLS MOM EVERYTHING

Daughter Depends Too Much on Mom ​by Mary Follin and Erika Guerrero​Read more ASK MOM on Fredericksburg Parent & Family ​ THE PROBLEM: My 8 yo daughter has a habit of running everything through me. She tells me every little thing about herself. (My nose was runny...

ASK MOM: SON BORED UNLESS HE’S IN FRONT OF A SCREEN, MOM SAD ABOUT IT

ASK MOM: SON BORED UNLESS HE’S IN FRONT OF A SCREEN, MOM SAD ABOUT IT

Son bored unless he's in front of a screen, mom sad about itby Mary Follin and Erika Guerrero​Read more ASK MOM on Fredericksburg Parent & Family ​ THE PROBLEM: I worry about my (8 yo) son and his addiction to screens. Even though ‘addiction’ is my word, I’m...

ASK MOM: SELF-ABSORBED CHILDREN EMBARRASS MOM

ASK MOM: SELF-ABSORBED CHILDREN EMBARRASS MOM

Self-absorbed children embarrass momby Mary Follin and Erika Guerrero​​Read more ASK MOM on Fredericksburg Parent & Family ​ THE PROBLEM: I’m a little frustrated that my kids all seem to be pretty self-absorbed. It’s not that they’re not kind to others (they...

ASK MOM: OLDEST DAUGHTER LEAVING FOR COLLEGE, MOM GRIEVING ALREADY

ASK MOM: OLDEST DAUGHTER LEAVING FOR COLLEGE, MOM GRIEVING ALREADY

Oldest Daughter Leaving for College, Mom Grieving Alreadyby Mary Follin and Erika Guerrero​​Read more ASK MOM on Fredericksburg Parent & Family ​ THE PROBLEM: My oldest daughter is leaving for college next year, and truth be told, I’ve been sad about it since she...

ASK MOM: MOM HURT WHEN SON’S FRIENDS LEAVE HIM OUT

ASK MOM: MOM HURT WHEN SON’S FRIENDS LEAVE HIM OUT

ASK MOM: Mom hurt when son’s friends leave him out​by Mary Follin and Erika Guerrero​Read more ASK MOM on Fredericksburg Parent & Family ​ THE PROBLEM: My twelve-year-old son is part of a group of four (sometimes five) boys who hang out after school. He calls them...

ASK MOM: DAD LOSES TEMPER A LOT, FEELS GUILTY

ASK MOM: DAD LOSES TEMPER A LOT, FEELS GUILTY

Dad Loses Temper a Lot, Feels Guiltyby Mary Follin and Erika Guerrero​Read more ASK MOM on Fredericksburg Parent & Family ​ THE PROBLEM: Being a dad is hard for me. Don’t get me wrong, I love my kids (I’ve got 3), but I don’t always know how to talk to them—or...

ASK MOM: SON BORN WITH DOWN SYNDROME AND MOM’S NOT COPING

ASK MOM: SON BORN WITH DOWN SYNDROME AND MOM’S NOT COPING

ASK MOM: Son Born with Down Syndrome and Mom's Not Copingby Mary Follin and Erika GuerreroRead more ASK MOM on Fredericksburg Parent & Family ​​​THE PROBLEM: I knew before my son was born he had Down syndrome, and I thought I was ready for it. Now that he’s 3...

MOM ANNOYED WHEN DAD MAKES DAUGHTER ‘SHOW OFF’

MOM ANNOYED WHEN DAD MAKES DAUGHTER ‘SHOW OFF’

ASK MOM: Mom Annoyed When Dad Makes Daughter 'Show Off'by Mary Follin and Erika GuerreroRead more ASK MOM on Fredericksburg Parent & Family ​ THE PROBLEM: I have to start by saying my husband’s an amazing dad to our 4 yo daughter. But he does something that really...

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ASK MOM: SON GETS FRUSTRATED AND CUSSES AT MOM

ASK MOM: SON GETS FRUSTRATED AND CUSSES AT MOM

Son gets frustrated and cusses at momby Mary Follin and Erika Guerrero THE PROBLEM: My son gets frustrated soooo easily. He’s eleven, but he’s always been like this. He gets impatient if he doesn’t know how to do something right away, and throws what I call a...

ASK MOM: DAUGHTER WON’T ACCEPT ‘NO,’ HARASSES MOM

ASK MOM: DAUGHTER WON’T ACCEPT ‘NO,’ HARASSES MOM

Daughter won’t accept ‘no,’ harasses momby Mary Follin and Erika Guerrero​Read on Fredericksburg Parent & Family magazine ​THE PROBLEM: My eight-year-old daughter won’t take ‘no’ for an answer. Every time I don’t give her what she wants, she starts negotiating...

ASK MOM: AM I RAISING A VIDEO GAME ADDICT?

ASK MOM: AM I RAISING A VIDEO GAME ADDICT?

Am I raising a video game addict?by Mary Follin and Erika Guerrero Read more ASK MOM on Fredericksburg Parent & Family THE PROBLEM: I’m afraid my son is addicted to video games. He’s twelve, and he’s a sweet boy, but he only seems to be truly happy when he’s...

ASK MOM: SHY SON IN A LOUD FAMILY, MOM WORRIED HE’S UNHAPPY

ASK MOM: SHY SON IN A LOUD FAMILY, MOM WORRIED HE’S UNHAPPY

by Mary Follin and Erika GuerreroRead more ASK MOM on Fredericksburg Parent & Family​THE PROBLEM: I often think my youngest (8 yo) child seems overwhelmed living at our house. We’re a close family, but a loud one. My husband and I have seven kids, two dogs, and a...

DAUGHTER WON’T DO WHAT SHE’S TOLD, MOM SICK OF IT

DAUGHTER WON’T DO WHAT SHE’S TOLD, MOM SICK OF IT

Daughter won't do what she's told, mom sick of it​by Mary Follin and Erika Guerrero​Read more ASK MOM on Fredericksburg Parent & Family ​ THE PROBLEM: My daughter (she’s 11), will never do what I tell her to do. I’m not particularly demanding, but if I ask her to...

ASK MOM: TODDLER HAS ANXIETY, MOM AT WIT’S END

ASK MOM: TODDLER HAS ANXIETY, MOM AT WIT’S END

Toddler has anxiety, mom at wit's end by Mary Follin and Erika GuerreroRead more ASK MOM on Fredericksburg Parent & Family ​ THE PROBLEM: My three-year old daughter has been diagnosed with anxiety. Her doctor says he is seeing anxiety and depression show up in...

ASK MOM: TERRIFIED OF KIDS ONLINE

ASK MOM: TERRIFIED OF KIDS ONLINE

Terrified of Kids Onlineby Mary Follin and Kristi CrossonRead on Fredericksburg Parent & Family magazine​THE PROBLEM: There are some kids (boys and girls) who are picking on my daughter, mostly online. I’m physically sick about it. I know this is supposed to be...

About Mary Follin

Mary is the author of TEACH YOUR CHILD TO READ and ETHYR, winner of the Moonbeam Children's Book Award and the Gertrude Warner Book Award. She is mom to two grown sons and enjoys sharing her more seasoned perspective  with parents of younger children. 

ABOUT ERIKA GUERRERO

Erika Guerrero is a freelance hair and makeup artist, Erika K. Beauty, single-mama to one amazing boy, and author of She’s Not Shaken, a blog offering hope and encouragement to women in all walks of life.

ABOUT SUZANNE JOHNSON

Suzanne Johnson, mother of five children and grandmother of eight, is an illustrator, book cover designer, and author of the Realms of Edenocht series.

ETHYR

M.P. Follin
​Gertrude Warner Book Award
Moonbeam Children's Book Award

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