ASK MOM

ASK MOM

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by Mary Follin and Erika Guerrero

Fredericksburg Parent & Family Magazine

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ASK MOM: AM I RAISING A VIDEO GAME ADDICT?

ASK MOM: AM I RAISING A VIDEO GAME ADDICT?

Am I raising a video game addict?by Mary Follin and Erika Guerrero Read more ASK MOM on Fredericksburg Parent & Family THE PROBLEM: I’m afraid my son is addicted to video games. He’s twelve, and he’s a sweet boy, but he only seems to be truly happy when he’s...

ASK MOM: SHY SON IN A LOUD FAMILY, MOM WORRIED HE’S UNHAPPY

ASK MOM: SHY SON IN A LOUD FAMILY, MOM WORRIED HE’S UNHAPPY

by Mary Follin and Erika GuerreroRead more ASK MOM on Fredericksburg Parent & Family​THE PROBLEM: I often think my youngest (8 yo) child seems overwhelmed living at our house. We’re a close family, but a loud one. My husband and I have seven kids, two dogs, and a...

DAUGHTER WON’T DO WHAT SHE’S TOLD, MOM SICK OF IT

DAUGHTER WON’T DO WHAT SHE’S TOLD, MOM SICK OF IT

Daughter won't do what she's told, mom sick of it​by Mary Follin and Erika Guerrero​Read more ASK MOM on Fredericksburg Parent & Family ​ THE PROBLEM: My daughter (she’s 11), will never do what I tell her to do. I’m not particularly demanding, but if I ask her to...

SON PICKS ON YOUNGER SIBLING, MOM WORRIED ABOUT PSYCHOLOGICAL IMPACT

SON PICKS ON YOUNGER SIBLING, MOM WORRIED ABOUT PSYCHOLOGICAL IMPACT

Son picks on younger sibling, mom worried about psychological impactby Mary Follin and Erika Guerrero​Read more ASK MOM on Fredericksburg Parent & Family ​ THE PROBLEM: My older son (14) picks on his little brother (9). It’s not out-and-out bullying, just...

ASK MOM: TODDLER HAS ANXIETY, MOM AT WIT’S END

ASK MOM: TODDLER HAS ANXIETY, MOM AT WIT’S END

Toddler has anxiety, mom at wit's end by Mary Follin and Erika GuerreroRead more ASK MOM on Fredericksburg Parent & Family ​ THE PROBLEM: My three-year old daughter has been diagnosed with anxiety. Her doctor says he is seeing anxiety and depression show up in...

ASK MOM: TERRIFIED OF KIDS ONLINE

ASK MOM: TERRIFIED OF KIDS ONLINE

Terrified of Kids Onlineby Mary Follin and Kristi CrossonRead on Fredericksburg Parent & Family magazine​THE PROBLEM: There are some kids (boys and girls) who are picking on my daughter, mostly online. I’m physically sick about it. I know this is supposed to be...

ASK MOM: DAUGHTER TOO SHY TO SPEAK UP

ASK MOM: DAUGHTER TOO SHY TO SPEAK UP

Daughter Too Shy to Speak Upby Mary Follin and Kristi CrossonRead on Fredericksburg Parent & Family magazine ​ THE PROBLEM: I am worried about my 6-year old daughter who always ‘hangs back’ whenever other kids are in the room. When someone brings a new game or toy...

ASK MOM: MOM OBSESSIVELY WORRIES ABOUT HER KIDS, CAN’T GET COMFORTABLE

ASK MOM: MOM OBSESSIVELY WORRIES ABOUT HER KIDS, CAN’T GET COMFORTABLE

Mom obsessively worries about her kids, can't get comfortableby Mary Follin and Erika GuerreroRead more ASK MOM advice. THE PROBLEM: I’m always worried about my children. I have four of them, so I’ve got plenty to worry about. I keep expecting to get a phone call from...

ASK MOM: DEPRESSED TEEN TRIES OUT FOR SCHOOL PLAY AND DOESN’T MAKE IT

ASK MOM: DEPRESSED TEEN TRIES OUT FOR SCHOOL PLAY AND DOESN’T MAKE IT

Depressed Teen Tries Out for School Play and Doesn't Make Itby Mary Follin and Erika GuerreroRead more ASK MOM advice. THE PROBLEM: My 14 yo son has struggled with depression since he was 9, and for whatever reason, nothing seems to work out for him. He tried out for...

ASK MOM: KID UPSET BY CHANGE, FRUSTRATED MOM TIRED OF TANTRUMS

ASK MOM: KID UPSET BY CHANGE, FRUSTRATED MOM TIRED OF TANTRUMS

Kid Upset by Change, Frustrated Mom Tired of Tantrums by Mary Follin and Erika GuerreroRead more ASK MOM on Fredericksburg Parent & Family ​ THE PROBLEM: My child gets upset when his routine is disrupted. That was okay when he was little, since his dad and I had a...

ASK MOM wins parenting media association award!

ASK MOM: TOO MANY CHOICES FOR KIDS?

ASK MOM: TOO MANY CHOICES FOR KIDS?

ASK MOM offers parents and caretakers two perspectives on today’s child-rearing issues--one from a mom with grown children, the other from a mom raising small children. If you're looking for creative solutions, or your mom isn't around to ask, drop in!​THE ISSUE: I’ve...

ASK MOM: GUILTY MOM WONDERS ABOUT KIDS & RESTAURANTS

ASK MOM: GUILTY MOM WONDERS ABOUT KIDS & RESTAURANTS

by Mary Follin and Kristi Crosson ASK MOM offers parents and caretakers two perspectives on today’s child-rearing issues--one from a mom with grown children, the other from a mom raising small children. If you're looking for creative solutions, or your mom isn't...

ASK MOM: AM I RAISING A BULLY?

ASK MOM: AM I RAISING A BULLY?

Am I Raising a Bully?by Mary Follin and Kristi CrossonRead more ASK MOM advice. THE PROBLEM: My oldest son (11 yo) is mean to his younger brother and sister. He calls each of them a derogatory nickname and constantly makes fun of them. He even shoves them a little...

ASK MOM: DAUGHTER ASSUMES THE WORST, TURNING INTO NEGATIVE PERSON

ASK MOM: DAUGHTER ASSUMES THE WORST, TURNING INTO NEGATIVE PERSON

Daughter assumes the worst, turning into negative personby Mary Follin and Erika Guerrero THE PROBLEM: I am worried about my daughter (15 yo), who always expects the worst. She has a long list of things she’s sure isn’t going to happen, like getting invited to a...

ASK MOM: MY DAUGHTER REPULSES OTHER KIDS

ASK MOM: MY DAUGHTER REPULSES OTHER KIDS

My Daughter Repulses Other Kidsby Mary Follin and Kristi CrossonRead more ASK MOM advice. THE PROBLEM: My daughter is desperate for a friend—even ONE friend would do—but every time another child pays attention to her (which is rare), my daughter does something to make...

ASK MOM: AFRAID MY BABY WILL GROW UP LIKE ME

ASK MOM: AFRAID MY BABY WILL GROW UP LIKE ME

Afraid My Baby Will Grow Up Like Meby Mary Follin and Kristi CrossonRead more ASK MOM advice. THE PROBLEM: My childhood was the kind you want to forget. (Abuse, neglect, you name it.) I’ve been able to escape it, and by some miracle, I married a nice guy who treats me...

ASK MOM: MOM OVER-PRAISES DAUGHTER, DAUGHTER CRAVES APPROVAL

ASK MOM: MOM OVER-PRAISES DAUGHTER, DAUGHTER CRAVES APPROVAL

Mom over-praises daughter, daughter craves approvalby Mary Follin and Erika GuerreroRead on Fredericksburg Parent & Family magazine THE PROBLEM: I’ve always been one to praise my daughter. I love her for who she is, and I want her to love herself, too. But I’m...

About Mary Follin

Mary is the author of TEACH YOUR CHILD TO READ and ETHYR, winner of the Moonbeam Children's Book Award and the Gertrude Warner Book Award. She is mom to two grown sons and enjoys sharing her more seasoned perspective  with parents of younger children. 

ABOUT ERIKA GUERRERO

Erika Guerrero is a freelance hair and makeup artist, Erika K. Beauty, single-mama to one amazing boy, and author of She’s Not Shaken, a blog offering hope and encouragement to women in all walks of life.

ABOUT SUZANNE JOHNSON

Suzanne Johnson, mother of five children and grandmother of eight, is an illustrator, book cover designer, and author of the Realms of Edenocht series.

ETHYR

M.P. Follin
​Gertrude Warner Book Award
Moonbeam Children's Book Award

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